Now it’s time to dig deeper into my battle with the Triads during 2009–2015, with some added clarity and behind-the-scenes insight I gained later. The following section highlights how Jasmine helped me understand the full scope of what was happening during those years. You’ll see not only what I experienced firsthand, but also the hidden layers and motives that only came to light after the fact.
Scroll down to see how these revelations connect the dots and expose just how far the Triads went, and how close I came to danger, even when I didn’t realize it at the time.
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KILL ATTEMPT #1
Many of you may recall from earlier in the story that I spent seven weeks in Vietnam in 2009, mostly to find a place to live so I could be with Hong, but also to decide if I really wanted to make the move. These two audio recordings on the left are, in my opinion, jaw-dropping. After Jasmine jogged my memory, I remembered how deathly ill I became at 7’s wedding, the wedding where she married the Triad, and I was supposedly the best man.
Jasmine explains exactly what happened at that wedding. The photo below shows Hong with Nhung, just moments before Nhung offered me a sip of a drink that had been poisoned. That night, I genuinely thought I was going to die, but I wrote it off at the time as “jungle fever.” Jasmine later revealed that they didn’t fully trust my commitment; I’d given them the impression I might still change my mind about moving to Vietnam. She was absolutely right; I was still on the fence.
I didn’t realize what had really happened until Jasmine explained it, but looking back, it makes perfect sense. Reliving those events now, the pieces finally fit together.
I took this picture in November 2009 in Can Tho, Vietnam, just moments before Nhung handed me the poisoned drink. After that, I became deathly ill. Hong didn’t even come back to the hotel with me; she claimed she needed to stay at 7’s house all night to help with wedding preparations. Total bullshit. The truth is, they thought I was going to die that night, and I nearly did.
Looking back at this photo, you can practically see it in Hong’s eyes; she truly believed she’d never see me again. The level of betrayal and cold calculation in that moment still blows my mind. This was just one of the many times they tried to take me out, and it set the tone for everything that followed.
The man on the left, who bears a strong resemblance to Ho Chi Minh, was, according to Jasmine, the one who wanted my passport and gave the order to have me poisoned that night. He was deep Triad, and Jasmine later confirmed he’s now dead. The guy on the right was his driver.
One thing I learned in Asia: enemies almost always approach you with a smile. Keep that in mind.
Jasmine also said this man wanted a photo with me because he was impressed I’d survived the poison they gave me the night before. Right after this picture was taken (by my ex), they tried to poison me again. I became violently ill, but this time I recovered within about 30 minutes. The cycle of betrayal and danger was relentless, and it was always lurking just beneath the surface of these “friendly” encounters.
KILL ATTEMPT #2
In January 2011, I bought nine motorcycles for Hong’s family. About a month later, they tried to poison me again; something Jasmine later explained in detail. I remember getting extremely sick around that time, but had almost forgotten about it until Jasmine brought it up.
What’s remarkable is how her insights jogged my memory, bringing back details I’d nearly lost to time. The information she provided didn’t just fill in the blanks; it actually helped me recall events I’d buried or dismissed. It’s a testament to just how deep and persistent the danger was, and how easily some of these attempts could have faded into the background if not for those reminders.
The Chinese Ogre - Jasmine explained that there were Triad members armed with guns at a nightclub in Macau the night I nearly got into a fight with a tall Chinese guy. I had no idea just how close I was to real danger; she made it clear that I was extremely lucky not to have been killed that night.
Looking back, it’s chilling to realize how quickly things could have gone sideways. What seemed like just another tense confrontation was actually a moment where my life was hanging by a thread, surrounded by people who wouldn’t have hesitated to pull the trigger if things had escalated. Sometimes, it’s only in hindsight that you see how close you came to disaster.
Smuggling $350,000 US worth of Chinese Yuan to Singapore
Remember the 1.5 million Chinese Yuan I had to smuggle out of Vietnam? My ex and her friend Nhan pretended to clean my office, but their real goal was to find and steal my customs declaration for that money. Jasmine explains exactly what happened during that episode, especially what went down at the airport, in the audio clip above on the right.
That moment was a turning point. I was being set up from the inside, with people I trusted actively working against me. Jasmine’s explanation helped clarify the layers of betrayal and risk I was facing, and how close I came to losing everything; not just the money, but potentially my freedom or my life.
HCMC Airport Scam on 4-14-2011 (Jasmine clarifies below and adds to what really happened)
This audio on the left is where Jasmine confirms what Zulfiya told me: the necklace given to me by her friend was cursed, and if I hadn’t flushed it down the airplane toilet, it could have gotten me killed. At the time, I thought it was a drug setup, but in reality, it was even more sinister; a stolen museum necklace, laced with powerful black magic, intended to bring me devastating bad luck and legal trouble.
Jasmine, channeling my great-grandmother, reminded me of details I’d forgotten. We also discussed how I destroyed my home security hard drive out of fear that it had been hacked to make it look like I was involved in drug dealing. But Jasmine revealed the real plan was much darker: they wanted to frame me as if I was bringing underage girls into my room, even though that never happened. The Triads were prepared to manufacture evidence for the worst possible accusations, showing just how ruthless and relentless their tactics could be.
I recorded this video just minutes after Hong realized I had microwaved the surveillance hard drive; the same one containing the doctored footage meant to frame me. Their goal was to make it look like I had young girls entering my room in Vietnam, even though it never happened. Destroying that hard drive was a critical move; it prevented them from planting evidence that could have ruined my life. The look on Hong’s face when she discovered what I’d done said it all; her plan had just gone up in smoke.
The audio on the left breaks down how Hong lied to the Black Magic Guy and reveals exactly why she was so furious in the video above. What’s remarkable is that Jasmine hadn’t even seen that video, yet everything she described fits perfectly and ties together the full picture of their sinister plot.
Jasmine’s insight exposed not just the surface-level betrayal, but the deeper layers of manipulation and setup that were happening behind the scenes. The anger Hong showed wasn’t just about a lost hard drive; it was about a carefully orchestrated scheme falling apart. It’s only when you connect these moments that the true extent of what I was up against becomes clear.
This audio explains why they specifically chose that necklace for me. According to Jasmine, it was ancient and contained old stones, which made it much easier to infuse with black magic. The age and materials of the necklace weren’t just random; they were selected deliberately because objects with history and natural elements are more susceptible to being used in powerful rituals. This wasn’t just a setup for theft or legal trouble; it was a calculated move to bring serious bad luck and harm into my life through spiritual means.
These audio clips capture Jasmine explaining the incident at the airport on April 14, 2011, when a cop tried to walk me outside and even attempted to take my passport. I refused to let go, and eventually, he relented. Jasmine revealed that the cop was actually in on the scam, but now, supposedly, he sees me as a sort of folk hero for managing to escape that day.
Jasmine also references Facebook in this audio; she’s talking about a fake account I created to expose Hong and her network. I friend-requested everyone connected to Hong, eventually reaching 5,000 friends. Everyone involved in the plot to bring me down in Vietnam was watching that account closely when I was most active in 2016. (For the record, the account has since been removed for “community violations”; no surprise there.)
These moments show just how deep the conspiracy ran, and how even the people in uniform were part of the machinery. But it also shows how, sometimes, the story takes unexpected turns; even your enemies might end up respecting your ability to survive and expose the truth.
Poison, Poison & more Poison - The many attempts to kill me with Poison
This is also the point where I realized that Jasmine was actually communicating with my great-grandmother, not my grandmother, 99% of the time during our sessions. That distinction suddenly made everything click. My great-grandmother was the one guiding and protecting me, and so many of the insights and warnings Jasmine shared made perfect sense once I understood who was really coming through. It added a whole new layer of meaning to everything I’d experienced and explained why the details were so specific and personal.
After I returned to the United States, I started noticing flyers left on my door every so often. When I walked around the neighborhood, I realized the flyer wasn’t on any other door; not even on the vacant apartment upstairs. It was always for a Chinese restaurant a few miles away, not even close to my home.
It didn’t add up, and I quickly suspected it was targeted. My gut told me the flyer was left just for me, hoping I’d order so they could send me poisoned food. Jasmine later confirmed this suspicion; it was, in fact, a setup. The lengths they went to, even after I’d escaped Vietnam, were relentless. It was a constant reminder that the danger didn’t end just because I’d changed countries.
May & June 2011 - Two Months in True Hell
After escaping the airplane plot, my enemies grew even bolder. They started doing things like smashing bricks off the wall in the part of the house where I spent most of my time. There were no windows on that side, so I never saw who was behind it.
During this period, Hong brought Giang into the house, claiming he wanted to talk to her about issues with his wife. In reality, he was there to kill me. As I described earlier, Giang gave me a gift of Japanese swords, but when my ex left the room, he gripped the swords tightly, clearly waiting for the right moment to strike. At the time, I was incredibly naive about the danger. Looking back, I realize that was a blessing: if I’d caught on, I might have acted first and ended up in jail, with my assets confiscated.
I’ll never forget how Giang stood there, breathing hard, but never swung the sword. Now I know it was God blocking him; protecting me from being killed. The fog of naivety lifted two days later, after a second attempt: Giang brought four guys to my house, but instead of attacking, they just sat there arguing until two of them got up and left. Again, divine intervention kept me safe.
It was only about an hour after everyone left that it all clicked, and I realized what had just happened. I went into a rage, confronting Hong and accusing her of helping set me up. Fortunately, the interpreter I’d hired from California happened to be in Vietnam at the time. I asked him to come over and moderate the argument, since Hong’s English was still limited and it was hard to get through to her.
The audio below features Jasmine explaining that the interpreter was actually a good guy; he knew Hong was scamming me, but didn’t know how to come out and say it. Sometimes, the people on the periphery see more than we realize, even if they can’t always step in.
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